New Car Fever

This might seem a little different than a lot of things I write about but, trust me, I’ll swing a little gender stuff in here for you.  Lately I’ve been thinking a lot about what vehicle I might like to get next.  I don’t really need a new car.  Mine are both paid off and run like champs.  I think it’s good to be prepared for when the day comes though.

My personal vehicle looks like this, mostly, except the color:


My other vehicle is a van for making deliveries for work:


What I want to get:

red mustang

My problem is that I feel guilty driving my truck because of the horrible gas mileage and I hate driving the minivan.  We barely ever use the van anymore for work so it’s sort of a waste to even own it except that it does do better on gas and comes in handy as a spare when our other cars need servicing.  We bought the truck to tow one of these:


But, it freaks me out to tow such a huge thing and I usually either don’t use it or make poor Candace drive it.  I’m not sure which makes me more nervous; being the passenger or driving the thing myself.  Either way, it’s stressful.

Last week I took a trip up to Philly for the Trans Health Conference and that gave me lots of time to look at cars, trucks and SUVs as well as think.  I like the ability to tow stuff but I don’t know that I need to be able to tow a big camper in the future, and gas mileage is a concern, so I was looking at smaller SUVs and trucks.  I tried picturing myself driving different vehicles and I found myself thinking judgmental stuff about them.  Mostly, I’d find myself thinking that certain cars are just too “girly” or boring, nerdy, ugly.  Too big, too small, too expensive, etc.  One of the things I hate about the minivan I own is how I get treated when I’m driving it.  I get NO respect on the road in that thing.  People pass me even if I’m going 85 (which I never do :-)) simply because they don’t want to be behind a soccer mom.  And, I’ve actually had people assume I’m a mom with a bunch of kids while driving it around town.  Ugg.  If it wasn’t a work vehicle I would put a bumper sticker on it that said something like: “This is not your mom’s van”  or “MAN VAN” or maybe “What happens in the Man Van stays in the Man Van”.

Part of the thing that made me think about gender and cars was that I took this car up to Philly:


Isn’t it cute?  Yeah, but I felt kind of silly driving it and couldn’t shake the feeling.  It’s Candace’s spare for work and is actually fun to drive but it’s just not me.

I’ve always been attracted to the Subaru Outback since it came out and I admire the company for how they’ve marketed to the gay and lesbian population over the years:


How could I not love Subaru?

How could I not love Subaru?

I like the ruggedness and versatility of the Toyota 4Runner too: 4runner

In my mind, the manliest vehicle is a truck and I own one of those.  2nd manliest is a sports car which I want.  Everything else is just a vehicle for getting around.  What we drive says a lot about us, I think.  What they say is dependent on what is important to us at the time.  Maybe we want to show the world that we’re important, or smart, or conservative, or economical, or climate-conscious, or family-oriented, or adventurous, or sporty or just don’t care about what we drive.

Sometimes our cars reflect our hobbies and interests: adventure

Maybe we want to look pretty driving around town:  beetle

Or we want to show the world that we’re a bad ass:  badass

Or the fastest: fastest

Maybe we want to channel our inner Batman: batman

Perhaps we just need a safe, economical commuter car: prius

Or maybe we want to flaunt our wonderful family for all to see: stick figures

Or our religious beliefs:  thor  many fish  Christian+Car

You get the idea.

Maybe it’s an American thing, but, even though the main reason to own a vehicle is for transportation, what we drive and how we deck it out says something about us as individuals.  When I think about buying a Mustang I wonder if it’s going to scream “Warning: Mid-life Crisis!!!  Middle aged dude who was a loser in high school!!!”  Haha, that would actually be funny since I was neither a dude or a loser in high school and my mid-life crisis is over.  I just love Mustangs, particularly the new ones.  I want the Mustang because I want it, not because I need it and that makes it hard to justify in my mind.  Well, I also need to replace the soccer mom van with something smaller that I can easily park up in the city since I find myself there more than I like.  Might as well enjoy the trip and look cool too, right?

You can probably tell that I like pretty much anything on 4 wheels and spend way too much time thinking about them.  I used to play a game with myself at night while driving to see if I could guess what make and model vehicle was behind me just based on their head lamps.  I still play that game but it’s a lot harder these days since they change the look of cars so frequently now.  I used to be accurate a lot of the time.  I have theories about how the way someone drives tells you a lot about their personality.  And, of course, as I discussed here, what they drive says a lot about them as well.  But sometimes that is limited by finances and responsibilities, so it’s not so accurate.  I love bumper stickers.  I like to read them, that is.  I’m very selective about any sticker I put on my bumper and rarely do.  I’m more a fan of magnets now since they don’t mess up your paint as much.  If you don’t like cars than you probably haven’t read this far and I lost you after a couple of sentences.  If you do love them I’d love to hear your thoughts about your dream car or favorite vehicle.

I have to throw this last one in here just for kicks.

I can’t resist a food joint with a cool truck that just happens to have a BBQ on it:mission


13 thoughts on “New Car Fever

  1. I have a 2006 Subaru Outback, and it is a great vehicle, but it doesn’t ring my guy chimes. We use it to go back and forth to our vacation home in upstate NY (all wheel drive is handy). It might work as a work back-up instead of the van, or you could always replace the mom van with a cargo van.
    I’d love a two seater sports car, but we carry too much stuff and the dog to fit into one. I like the Mazda MX-5 (Miata) but don’t see one in my future. If you want a Mustang go for it and get it in the color you want.


    • The Miata is a cool car! I’ve always liked it too. I used to think about getting a cargo van but we just don’t need one anymore since the nature of what we do has changed over the years. I wouldn’t expect the Outback to ring any guy chimes but I like the all wheel drive aspect since the Mustang would not be a good choice to drive in snow and ice or to put the dog in and go on a trip.

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  2. I’m driving an ’05 Outback right now, but I’m pretty sold on Subaru’s CrossTrek for next time. Great on gas, and one of the smaller crossovers.


  3. Interesting timing. I just traded my truck in for a silver Nissan Juke. I have owned a truck for the past 30 yrs and it is an adjustment as, I agree with you, what we drive reflects who we are. But the Juke… (I am smiling here) its this sexy, sporty mini SUV which I am thoroughly enjoying. And it is a new look. I did it for economy and my carbon footprint as my commute adds up to at least $400/mth. But man is it hard to let go of the truck. I am embracing my sporty sexy nature with this car, vs my rugged don’t fuck with me nature expressed thru my trucks! It might just be a very practical mid-life crisis, I haven’t decided yet!

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    • I wasn’t familiar with the Juke so I looked it up. The white and the silver are the coolest because of the red mirrors. I agree, it is a sexy little car. Sometimes it’s good to mix things up and do something different. Whether it’s a mid-life thing or not doesn’t matter. What matters is you like it and it makes you feel good on several levels (carbon footprint, economy, sexy/sporty). Enjoy your new car.


  4. Get the Mustang and order a Batmobile for me while you are shopping, please, Shawn. And enjoy!

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    • If I could get us both real Batmobiles I would! The world needs more superheros and Batman has the best toys I think. Ironman is close though. I’d take an Ironman suit too.


  5. I too think you can read out a lot of personality based on what kind of car you drive, but I think it differs between countries. The truck here in Sweden is either owned by a young girl working with horses (if it’s newish) or a farmer (if it’s old and beaten up). Anyone else with a truck would be weird. A minivan is generally only owned by schools and sport clubs. Here the equivalent of a soccer-mum vehicle would be a station wagon.
    Even the insurance companies thinks there’s a correlation between brand and model of a car and how likely you are to be in an accident. If you own an Audi or BMW your insurance cost more.
    I drive a station wagon Kia from ’08 and I like it. I have a kid, dogs and like to drive with caution. It’s a cheap car, has a low gas mileage and is even statistically perfect for me.

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    • It’s interesting the differences in cultures. Here in the US, a lot of people drive trucks and mini vans regardless of their profession. Station wagons have mostly gone away from the market and were replaced with vans.

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